Flame and the forest fire

We are born as ingenuous children but are brought up in capricious circumstances.Right for Obama is wrong for Osama. Similarly every mater has two or perhaps more ways of being perceived. Unanimous agreements are rarely witnessed today.And this fact has to be conceived substantially. We are moving on to a stage where disagreements are becoming a part in the process.The sooner we understand the better we progress.

Even as the problem is stated, it still is a strenuous task to bring about a truce.The X factor being "EGO". People find it hard to compromise on this factor.The problem could be about a comment on an unseen person(say a film star) .The flame generated spreads and is then a massive forest fire.The X factor doesn't allocate spaces for "i give up",or "let it be".It always finds justification for anything and everything.

Self respect is misunderstood at times.To pardon, to bend down is not against one's self respect.We have to be wise and discerning to act according to the situations.

How to quench the flame before the forest fire sets out ?.How to control or stabilize the X factor ?The real solution might require a spiritual inclination. One idea would be to "talk from inside".I'll have my emotions under my control; when i am too loud,say(from inside)"Let me calm down for a while".Emotions,senses should always be under our control.Easy to preach,tough to follow.But the greatest tool "practice" helps.